SECRETS DAMAGE A MARRIAGE!!!

SECRETS DAMAGE A MARRIAGE!!! The moment a spouse begins keeping SECRETS, DECEIT and BETRAYAL are at the core of the relationship. If any activity needs to be a secret, it is not a healthy endeavor. Spouses with integrity have NO SECRETS and are TRUTHFUL and HONEST with all their activities. TRUST is built by having NO SECRETS!

Learn Simple, yet very Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

Every Child Needs a Daily Appreciation Vitamin!

PRAISE may be the most compelling motivator for a child. The best way to give a COMPLIMENT is to use the words, “I APPRECIATE . . .” Using “I APPRECIATE . . . “is POWERFUL PRAISE that enhances a child’s self-worth and motivates a child in every area of life. An EFFECTIVE PARENT understands the nutritional value of an APPRECIATION VITAMIN - Sincere Daily Praise!!!

Learn Simple, yet very Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

 I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

Love Is Demonstrated Through Time Together!

A great synonym for LOVE is TIME! When a parent spends time with a child that creates a feeling of true importance and special value.  Both QUALITY and QUANTITY of time is what truly matters, and it often takes scheduling to make that happen. FOCUSED TIME together helps a child know their parent truly cares and loves them! TIME TOGETHER is also essential in marriage!!!

Learn simple, yet very Effective Words, Actions, and Commonsense Wisdom from:

2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book  Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

STRIVE FOR SELF-CONTROL!!!

SELF-CONTROL (Galatians 5:22), not other control, is always the goal for every person and both spouses in a marriage. Controlling people have an untrue perception of life! In a happy marriage, both spouses cooperate with one another, meaning they are EASY TO GET ALONG WITH and AGREEABLE, never controlling.

Learn simple, yet very effective words, behaviors, and commonsense wisdom from the 2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS and the 2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING

I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

SIMPLE HABITS Make a Positive Difference!

In terms of helping a marriage, reading about concepts and principles feels good but is not sufficient for a satisfying marriage. Specific Practical Words and Actions make a positive difference! Couples have said numerous times, “With the SIMPLE HABITS from your MARRIAGE BOOK, we are almost GUARANTEED a HAPPY MARRIAGE!”

Learn simple, yet very effective words, behaviors, and commonsense wisdom from the 2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS and the 2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING

I encourage you to check out the 60+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

 God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy Schroeder

 

 

Physical Affection for a Child is Essential!

Physical affection and verbal expressions of love are 2 of the most priceless gifts a parent can give a child. A lack of physical touch may create a real insecurity in a child that can last a lifetime. Hence, be intentional daily with physical love for a child!

Excerpt from the 2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING.

 Learn also simple, successful words, behaviors, and commonsense wisdom from the 2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS.

 I encourage you to check out the nearly 60 videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

SPEAK LOW AND SLOW WITH OTHERS!

Tone of voice and body language make an immense difference in determining if a marriage is happy or unhappy. Over 90% of a message is conveyed through tone of voice and body language. Words are important (10%) but never underestimate the impact of tone of voice and body language on communication. A MAJOR GOAL IS TO SPEAK JUST ABOVE A WHISPER WHEN SHARING SENSITIVE OR IMPORTANT INFORMATION WITH A SPOUSE OR ANYONE!!!

Learn simple, successful words, behaviors, and commonsense wisdom from the 2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS.

I encourage you to check out the nearly 60 videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships throughout 2023!

Dr. Randy

My 2020 three-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Marital Happiness and the 2021 two-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Effective Parenting are available now on Amazon,  CrossLink Publishing, Christian Book, and Focus on the Family.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, an LCMS pastor, a licensed marriage and family counselor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling for nearly 25 years at Concordia Theological Seminary, has spoken to and counseled thousands of individuals, spouses, and parents about the simple, yet very effective habits, that are essential for an enjoyable life and satisfying relationships.

I believe that an absence of knowledge and skills, not a lack of desire, is what holds people back from attaining consistent marital happiness, being an effective parent, and achieving individual objectives. I am committed to educating others on how to accomplish their personal goals as well as strengthen their relationships. 

Randy Schroeder, Ph.D., M.Div., M.Ed.

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HOW TO HEAL PTSD WITH EMDR!

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is probably the best therapy for anyone with PTSD. EMDR has amazing awesome healing power, yet it is a little-known technique that can benefit millions of PTSD sufferers. Please click the link below to learn the fantastic curative power of EMDR for persons with PTSD.

How To Heal PTSD With EMDR!

Unbelievably, 100% of individuals I have counseled using EMDR have experienced diminished symptoms with their PTSD ranging from 25% to almost 100%. Please share with family, friends, neighbors, and through social media the remarkable, powerful healing that EMDR can provide for everyone with PTSD.

I encourage you to check out the other nearly 60 videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships throughout 2023!

Dr. Randy

My 2020 three-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Marital Happiness and 2021 two-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Effective Parenting are available now on Amazon,  CrossLink Publishing, Christian Book, and Focus on the Family.

I believe that an absence of knowledge and skills, not a lack of desire, is what holds people back from attaining marital happiness, being an effective parent, and achieving individual objectives. I am committed to educating others on how to accomplish their personal goals as well as strengthen their relationships.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, an LCMS pastor, a licensed marriage and family counselor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling for nearly 25 years at Concordia Theological Seminary, has spoken to and counseled thousands of individuals, spouses, and parents about the simple, yet very effective habits, that are essential for an enjoyable life and satisfying relationships.

 Randy Schroeder, Ph.D., M.Div., M.Ed.

www.DrRandySchroeder.com

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A Critical Need for a Child Is Focused Attention!!!

One of the most significant responsibilities a parent has it to instill trust, respect, and confidence in a child’s heart through positive focused attention. Being physically present with a child is NOT focused attention.

Focused attention means looking intently into a child’s eyes, daily dialoguing with a child, or doing an activity with a child.

I encourage you to check out the 50+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy

The 2020 three-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Marital Happiness and the 2021 two-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Effective Parenting are available now on Amazon,  CrossLink Publishing, Christian Book, and Focus on the Family.

 For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, an LCMS pastor, a licensed marriage and family counselor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling for nearly 25 years at Concordia Theological Seminary, has spoken to and counseled thousands of parents and spouses about the simple, yet very effective habits, that are essential for an enjoyable life and satisfying relationships.

I believe that an absence of knowledge and skills, not a lack of desire, is what holds people back from attaining consistent marital happiness, being an effective parent, and achieving individual objectives. I am committed to educating others on how to accomplish their personal goals as well as strengthen their relationships.

 Randy Schroeder, Ph.D., M.Div., M.Ed.

www.DrRandySchroeder.com

Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel

DrRandy@DrRandySchroeder.com

 

 

Commonsense Marriage Wisdom!!!

Whenever a couple has CONSISTENT MARITAL HAPPINESS, the simple reason is that THEIR EXPECTATIONS ARE BEING MET! Whenever there is an unhappy marriage, the reverse is true, and expectations are not being fulfilled, and most often it is due to unexpressed expectations. Within a happy marriage, both SPOUSES DAILY OR AT A MINIMUM REGULARLY REQUEST EXPECTATIONS because they know that is essential for a strong emotional connection and a satisfying relationship!

I encourage you to check out the 50+ videos on Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel. I would appreciate you subscribing to my YouTube channel, sharing these videos with family, friends, and others, and commenting on the videos. Knowing what is most important to you helps to open my eyes to new topics for future YouTube Videos.

God’s richest blessings on your life and relationships!

Dr. Randy

The 2020 three-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Marital Happiness and the 2021 two-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Effective Parenting are available now on Amazon,  CrossLink Publishing, Christian Book, and Focus on the Family.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, an LCMS pastor, a licensed marriage and family counselor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling for nearly 25 years at Concordia Theological Seminary, has spoken to and counseled thousands of parents and spouses about the simple, yet very effective habits, that are essential for an enjoyable life and satisfying relationships.

I believe that an absence of knowledge and skills, not a lack of desire, is what holds people back from attaining consistent marital happiness, being an effective parent, and achieving individual objectives. I am committed to educating and teaching others how to accomplish their personal goals as well as strengthen their relationships.

 Randy Schroeder, Ph.D., M.Div., M.Ed.

www.DrRandySchroeder.com

Dr. Randy Schroeder - YouTube Channel

DrRandy@DrRandySchroeder.com