Weekly Wisdom — Dr. Randy Schroeder

Focus on the Family names Dr. Randy as Best of 2022! Watch or listen to the interview NOW!

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HOW PARENTS CAN HELP THEIR CHILDREN!!!

Effective Habits to Embrace in Parenting was selected by Focus on the Family as the best parenting interview for 2021 and will be aired again this Friday, December 31. This interview is also on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HMU7pE_MagI

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting is the only guidebook that covers the 7 significant aspects of parenting a child to become a self-confident, self-motivated, and responsible Godly person in life and school. Every parent will now feel capable and encouraged to effectively lead a child to have a fulfilling Godly life.  

Life and Relationship Lessons on DR. RANDY SCHROEDER YOUTUBE CHANNEL!!!

Through my YouTube videos I will help you have a fulfilling life, healthy rewarding relationships, and supportive friendships by sharing specific practical words, behaviors, and knowledge that will make a positive difference for every aspect of your life.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling, has spoken to and counseled thousands of spouses and parents about the simple, yet very effective habits, that are essential for fulfilling, rewarding relationships.

Have a Joyous New Year!

To learn more please visit my website at www.DrRandySchroeder.com

Randy Schroeder, Ph.D., M.Div., M.Ed.

Schroeder Counseling & Consulting, Inc.

Cornerstone Lutheran Church

4850 East Main Street

Carmel, IN 46033

DrRandy@DrRandySchroeder.com

 

COMMUNICATION: THE KEY TO REWARDING RELATIONSHIPS!!!

On Friday, November 19, I had the privilege of speaking to the Fishers ROTARY Club on the topic, COMMUNICATION: THE KEY TO REWARDING RELATIONSHIPS.

Rotary Club of Fishers (fishersrotary.org)

Shown below are the essentials for EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION that I shared at my ROTARY presentation. 

WHAT To Communicate

WHAT To Avoid In Communication

WHEN To Communicate

WHERE To Communicate

HOW To Communicate

Desire for EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION is never enough, individuals must possess practical specific words, behaviors, and guidelines. Practical specific EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION knowledge for enhancing relationships can be found in my 2 books shown below. 

2020 SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS:  Practical Skills and Tools That Build a Strong Satisfying Relationship - Three-time national award-winning book

2021 SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING:  Specific Skills and Tools That Achieve Extraordinary Results in Raising a Child

MARITAL HAPPINESS and EFFECTIVE PARENTING are available on Amazon and at CrossLinkPublishing.com

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling, has spoken to and counseled thousands of spouses and parents about the simple yet effective habits that are essential for healthy relationships.

Email:        DrRandy@DrRandySchroeder.com

Website:    www.DrRandySchroeder.com

2 GREAT MARRIAGE QUESTIONS!!!

By asking 2 terrific questions twice a year, every spouse can grow personally while enhancing their marital relationship.

1st What would I like about being married to myself?

2nd What would I dislike about being married to myself?

Once you identify what you “like” about being married to yourself, overcome the dreaded disease of complacency by daily implementing those positive words and behaviors to keep strengthening your marital relationship. 

In terms of what you “dislike” about being married to yourself, become a can-do take action person by improving at least 1% per week to grow personally and strengthen your marital relationship.

The three-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Marital Happiness covers all seven major areas of a marriage and provides spouses with the practical specific words, behaviors, and guidelines that make a positive difference for every marriage. 

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting is a comprehensive guidebook that covers the seven main aspects of parenting to help a child reach their full potential with self-motivation, self-confidence, and good decision-making skills.

Simple Habits for Marital Happiness and Simple Habits for Effective Parenting are both available at Amazon and at CrossLinkPublishing.com.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling, has spoken to and counseled thousands of spouses and parents about the simple yet effective habits that are essential for healthy relationships.

Email:        DrRandy@DrRandySchroeder.com

Website:    www.DrRandySchroeder.com

MEALTIMES MAKE A MARVELOUS DIFFERENCE FOR A CHILD!!!

The most underrated and least talked about parenting essential is family mealtimes at the table. In my opinion, parent-child mealtimes together are probably one of the most significant influential parenting habits because eating together makes a tremendous impact on a child in so many ways.  Please realize mealtimes are for enjoyment, modeling manners, at times lovingly encouraging eating etiquette, and not continually correcting your child.

When a child is struggling behaviorally or academically, I have found most of the time meals are not eaten together as a family. I hear reports that each family member eats nearly every meal in a different part of the house--bedroom, living room in front of the television, the basement, BUT not together.

When family members start eating together and applying the following 10 goals, I have amazingly witnessed positive family life improvement as well as a child’s behavior becoming more responsible.

This is an excerpt from Chapter 2 of Simple Habits for Effective Parenting:  Specific Skills and Tools That Achieve Extraordinary Results in Raising a Child.  This comprehensive guidebook is the only resource that covers all seven key areas of parenting for leading and guiding a child to be a responsible, motivated, and confident individual. 

This past July I joined Jim Daly, President, and John Fuller, VP, for an interview on a national broadcast of Focus on the Family to discuss Effective Parenting.  This interview may be watched on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HMU7pE_MagI Please also share this Focus on the Family interview with family and friends. 

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting and the three-time national award-winning Simple Habits for Marital Happiness are available at Amazon or at CrossLinkPublishing.com.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling, has spoken to and counseled thousands of parents and spouses about the simple yet effective habits that are essential for healthy relationships.

 

GODLY CHARACTER AND GOOD CHOICES ARE ESSENTIAL FOR EVERY CHILD!!!

A healthy parent-child relationship is built through nurture, laughter, memories, respect, and when necessary, corrective discipline.  Through a strong relationship, an effective parent communicates through words and actions a deep desire for child to develop positive qualities and Godly character to help a child make wise choices throughout their entire life. 

An excellent goal for every parent is to daily praise either a positive attribute within a child or a specific action a child did that was meaningful.  Always use the words, “I appreciate . . .”  Praise creates positive energy within a child!

I had the privilege of joining Jim Daly, President, and John Fuller, VP, for an interview on a national broadcast of Focus on the Family to discuss Effective Parenting.  The interview may be watched at FocusOnTheFamily.com/shows/broadcast or on YouTube.  Please also share the Effective Parenting interview with family and friends. 

Simple Habits for Marital Happiness is a three-time national award-winning marriage book that will absolutely improve and strengthen every couple.  Simple Habits for Effective Parenting is the only resource that covers all seven areas of parenting for leading and guiding a child to be a responsible, motivated, and confident individual. 

Both Marital Happiness and Effective Parenting are available at Amazon or at CrossLinkPublishing.com.

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling, has spoken to and counseled thousands of parents and spouses about the simple yet effective habits that are essential for healthy relationships.

AVAILABLE NOW!!! Simple Habits for Effective Parenting!!!

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting:  Specific Skills and Tools That Achieve Extraordinary Results in Raising a Child is a comprehensive guidebook like no other because it covers all seven main areas of parenting explaining the most effective ways to influence a child to become positive, motivated, and responsible with good decision-making skills. 

This remarkable Christian resource offers solutions to typical parenting challenges and teaches everything a parent needs to be confident, competent, and nurturing!  Simple Habits for Effective Parenting is endorsed by Josh McDowell, bestselling Christian author of over 150 books, Jim Daly, President – Focus on the Family, along with other church leaders.

 These significant, easy-to-understand simple yet effective habits will show how to . . .

 ·        Build a strong parent-child relationship

·        Boost a child’s self-confidence

·        Discipline in loving, meaningful ways

·        Teach successful social skills

·        Inspire good academic effort

·        Create a never give up mindset

·        Strengthen faith in Jesus

Happy, confident children determined to reach their full potential are raised by parents who practice simple yet effective habits daily.  Effective parenting is now within the grasp of everyone involved in leading and encouraging a child! 

For over four decades, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling, has spoken to and counseled thousands of parents about the simple yet effective habits that are essential for nurturing and raising a child.

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting is available on Amazon or at Crosslink Publishing.

www.DrRandySchroeder.com

DrRandy@DrRandySchroeder.com

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Immediately Improve Your Parent-Child Relationship!!!

In my new book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting:  Specific Skills and Tools That Achieve Extraordinary Results in Raising a Child, I cover the seven main areas of Christian parenting.    

I had the privilege of joining Jim Daly and John Fuller for the Focus on the Family national broadcast to discuss Simple Habits for Effective Parenting with an air date Thursday, July 15.  After my one-hour interview, I also had several brief interviews regarding Effective Parenting.

Shown below is a Focus on the Family video from one of my shorter interviews where I briefly explain how to Immediately Improve Your Parent-Child Relationship

https://m.facebook.com/watch/?v=565160814468991&_rdr

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting may be purchased on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Habits-Effective-Parenting-Extraordinary/dp/1633573826 or at Crosslink Publishing https://crosslinkpublishing.com/shop/simple-habits-for-effective-parenting/

I am also the author of the three-time national award-winning Christian marriage book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness.  This remarkable relationship book may be purchased at Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Habits-Marital-Happiness-Relationship/dp/1633571750 or at CrossLink Publishing  https://crosslinkpublishing.com/shop/simple-habits-for-marital-happiness/

Dr. RANDY SCHROEDER, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling has a lifetime of expertise in educating parents and enhancing marriages.  For over four decades, he has spoken to and counseled parents about the Simple Habits that are essential for nurturing and raising a child. He and his wife, Ginny, have been married for over forty-five years and have two married sons and six grandchildren.

Please also “SUBSCRIBE” on my website, www.DrRandySchroeder.com,  for future emails. 

3 “Rs” To Influence the Heart of Your Child!!!

In my new book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting:  Specific Skills and Tools That Achieve Extraordinary Results in Raising a Child, I cover the seven main areas of Christian parenting.    

I had the privilege of joining Jim Daly and John Fuller for the Focus on the Family national broadcast to discuss Simple Habits for Effective Parenting with an air date Thursday, July 15.  After my one-hour interview, I also had several brief interviews regarding Effective Parenting.

Shown below is a Focus on the Family video from one of my shorter interviews where I explain the 3 “Rs” To Influence the Heart of Your Child

3 "R's" to Influence the Heart of Your Child - Dr. Randy Schroeder

Simple Habits for Effective Parenting may be purchased on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Habits-Effective-Parenting-Extraordinary/dp/1633573826 or at Crosslink Publishing https://crosslinkpublishing.com/shop/simple-habits-for-effective-parenting/

 I am also the author of the three-time national award-winning Christian marriage book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness.  This remarkable relationship resource may be purchased at Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Habits-Marital-Happiness-Relationship/dp/1633571750 or at CrossLink Publishing  https://crosslinkpublishing.com/shop/simple-habits-for-marital-happiness/

Dr. RANDY SCHROEDER, a licensed marriage and family therapist, pastor, and former seminary professor of pastoral counseling has a lifetime of expertise in educating parents and enhancing marriages.  For over four decades, he has spoken to and counseled parents about the Simple Habits that are essential for nurturing and raising a child. He and his wife, Ginny, have been married for over forty-five years and have two married sons and six grandchildren.

Please also “SUBSCRIBE” on my website, www.DrRandySchroeder.com,  for future emails. 

1800 Flowers Valentine’s Day Article

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching!  For your significant other, consider purchasing SIMPLE HABITS FOR MARITAL HAPPINESS either at CrossLinkPublishing.com or Amazon. 

In addition, check out the article on 1800 Flowers, “How to Pick the Perfect Gift for Your Significant Other.”  I had the privilege of contributing my marriage expertise to the article.  The link is shown below.   

 https://www.1800flowers.com/blog/celebrate-occasions/share-your-love/valentines-day-gift-guide/

Please spread the word about the three-time National award-winning marriage book, Simple Habits For Marital Happiness, with family members, friends, neighbors, and contacts in ways that are most comfortable for you.

To download the FREE Discussion Guide please click the following Crosslink Publishing link:  https://crosslinkpublishing.com/shop/simple-habits-for-marital-happiness/

https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Habits-Marital-Happiness-Relationship/dp/1633571750 

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TO IMPROVE RELATIONSHIPS: MAKE REQUESTS, DO NOT JUST COMPLAIN!

To improve your relationships, ask for verbal or behavior changes.  Complaining and criticizing do not make a positive difference in any relationship.  Instead, make a request in the form of a question with “Will you please . . .”  followed by a solution. 

Complaining and criticizing are easy but it takes courage to ask for what is wanted or expected in order to create a solid connection.  Always take action with requests because that is seeking solutions for a stronger bond.  Make “Will you please . . .” a regular part of your relationship vocabulary. 

Please spread the word about the three-time National award-winning marriage book, Simple Habits For Marital Happiness, with family members, friends, neighbors, and contacts in ways that are most comfortable for you.

To download the FREE Discussion Guide please click the following Crosslink Publishing link:  https://crosslinkpublishing.com/shop/simple-habits-for-marital-happiness/

https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Habits-Marital-Happiness-Relationship/dp/1633571750 

 

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